Hey so I (21m) feel like for some reason I’m cooked when it comes to dating these days or tryna find “someone “ so I figured it’s better I just re try when I’m in my 30s and an established pilot and nurse. I’m about to start college right now. I’m not the type of guy that would care about “body count “ as long as it’s nothing too crazy lol. But I do feel like I would feel some type of way or it wouldn’t feel fair that I would only deserve a “left over girl “ or someone who wouldn’t have gave me the time of day in my 20s. Ik it’s dumb but is it something that rlly matters? I do want marriage and kids. This question is mainly for men in their 30s that are in serious relationships but I’m open to hear anyone’s opinions. And I want to mention that it’s not like I’m saying I won’t have “fun” or anything but I’m not the type of guy that parties allot or does spring break takeovers and wild stuff like that. I don’t have a problem getting sex but it is hard to find a girl who is realistic in my generation and wants a long term relationship. I’m not looking for anything crazy literally want an average regular girl but anyway that’s not the main point of this post. So guys , do you or would you feel some type of way if after you’ve become successful in life, the girl that wants you wouldn’t have wanted you before or when you were younger? Are girls more serious in their 30s? (I don’t know if I questioned this right but I hope yall catch my drift) I also know some of yall might say I’m too young to be worrying about all this now but I’ve seen older guys on here saying they’re alone in their 40s and up and I would rlly like to avoid that🫠. Thanks submitted by /u/Health-Good
Originally posted by u/Health-Good on r/AskMen