My [28f] bf [36m] often has friends from out of town crash at his place when they need a place to stay for a few days. Recently, a woman my bf had sex with 10 years ago and her friend stayed at his place for a few days. He said that she asked if she and her friend could come over because her friend is going through a breakup and wanted to take her on a girls trip. He seemed really excited to have her over… I told him I felt a bit weird about it and he said “I’m not going to have sex with her.” So then I asked “do you want to have sex with her?” To which he responded with “I don’t know.” I was overtly upset by that answer. When I told him how this upset me, he said that he said he was just being honest. When I didn’t respond to that, he then he said “I’m sorry.” She came with her friend and they left already. I don’t think he would cheat on me or that anything happened. But still, I just found that whole exchange disrespectful to me. I told him this and he apologized again but idk…ever since then I haven’t felt right. Am I making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be? Like is this just a normal human/ guy response to whether he wants have sex with a person… Also…is this recoverable? Do you think this is something I should be able to move past from submitted by /u/IntroductionLife124
Originally posted by u/IntroductionLife124 on r/AskMen