I’ve had a few people tell me lately that I am very guarded. I found this rather confusing because I have always felt that I overshared and I am also super bubbly. I always find it fascinating that there is that block where we sometimes don’t see something in ourselves that is so obvious to others. I am starting to learn that I am hyper-independent and that I struggle to ask for and accept help. But I’m kinda curious, what were instances when you’ve recently started dating a woman that have made you realise she is guarded and when is that off putting. How do we begin to even drop a guard when we don’t know it’s there? submitted by /u/Curious_Kat_89
Originally posted by u/Curious_Kat_89 on r/AskMen
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