Hey guys, so my gf has been very transparent about previously dating a guy in her friend group and has been completely open about it. They were never in an official relationship but they were a thing. In my previous relationship I was emotionally cheated on(and maybe physically, found texts of them planning to meet) several times with their ex, who they kept in contact with, so I believe I may suffer from betrayal trauma based on some googling and chatgpt. I do plan to book a therapy session soon. But long story short my mind is spiraling over thoughts on this, and even though she’s done nothing wrong It’s been consuming my thoughts. She told me 3 months ago when we first started dating, but these thoughts only started this week when she told me she was hanging with him and another friend for lunch. Has anyone else been through a similar scenario and can offer some advice? Last thing I want do is build irrational resentment. I’ll probably be seeing him from time to time during hangouts and such so would like to get over this submitted by /u/WayComprehensive9945
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