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I’ve been thinking about this lately, after having some really deep conversation with guys.it seems like many men feel like they constantly have to perform, whether is being the provider ,the protector, the funny guy,or just one who always has all together. I’m genuinely curious, for those who find themselves in adating pool or just interacting with women often, when does the mask actually come off?what is a specific thing woman can say or do that will make you feel she actually looking at you- your personality, your struggles and not just want you can do for her. I’d love to hear your honest thought on this, submitted by /u/Dry_Information4419

Originally posted by u/Dry_Information4419 on r/AskMen