At my old gym, I would have men cold approach me every 1-2 weeks saying “I’ve seen you around” and I’ve never even noticed them before (I’m an Asian woman who goes 5x/week so I probably stick out). Or they would try to start conversations with me. I used to assume these were all friendly regulars but over time I realized that some of them would make a move or say something that indicated interest. Now I’ve switched gyms and make sure to avoid all eye contact and conversation with men. Is it normal for men to approach other men like this, or is it really just because I’m a woman and they are playing the friendly card to test the waters? I would love to make more gym friends, but I don’t want to risk being uncomfortable again and switching gyms. submitted by /u/Feeling-Entrance143
Originally posted by u/Feeling-Entrance143 on r/AskMen