my fiance (7 yrs together) was on a job class out of town. the first night he spent at his hotel. the second night I asked what he was doing and he tells me buzzed, bar hopping with strangers. I messaged and when um he didn’t answer I checked his location. he’s at a strip club. I asked him the next day where he went. he said “bars, bar bars, hotel bars “ I told him when I didn’t hear back I check his location. only then he tells me he might have mixed one in there… what a joke !! i explained my feelings and how I felt he was searching for something going to a place like that. fast forward to him not caring about my feelings or the point that I said how would he feel if while gone on his work trip I had a man naked trying to erouse me… not much to say from him. deflection all the way . his last and final night he spent about 7 hours at one. I’m hurt , angry at him . I’m also cur how much money he spent on entertaining these women. there whole job is to empty his pockets. at 2 am I see him at his hotel. call him . he tells me he spent 40 on drinks. but how do you spend 7 hours and spend hardly anything. big lies. he has another trip next month to the same place… dreading it ! it’s also a week long class. GUYs can you explain what might have happened in there. 7 hours , wow ! long time . submitted by /u/Potential_Soil_1332
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