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Guys, help me out with this dilemma Imagine you have to pick only one of these two situations for the rest of your life, with no way to change it: Option 1: Your girlfriend genuinely detests you as a person. During the day she completely ignores you, avoids you, barely speaks to you, leaves the room when you walk in, doesn’t want to do anything together, and treats you like you’re a nuisance. But when she can’t hold back anymore, the desire she feels for you is so strong that she ends up seeking you out. No dirty texts, no hints. She just shows up, you get into bed, and the sex is intense and desperate — almost like she’s pissed off at herself for wanting you so much. Afterward she gets dressed and goes back to ignoring you like nothing happened. It’s a weird mix that turns you on and fucks with your head at the same time. Option 2: Your girlfriend loves you with all her soul. She looks at you like you’re the best thing that ever happened to her, admires you, supports you in everything, wants to spend every minute with you, tells you “I love you” all day, makes future plans, and takes care of you like no one else. Emotionally, she’s perfect. But sexually it’s obvious she finds you disgusting. When you touch her she tenses up and makes a face of discomfort or straight-up repulsion. She kisses you with affection, but if you try to go further she pulls away. Sex barely exists, and when it does happen it’s cold, mechanical, and without any real desire. You can tell she loves you deeply as a person… but your body and the way you touch her repulse her. The question is: Which one would you choose? The one who hates you but still ends up fucking you even though it pisses her off? Or the one who truly loves you but looks at you with disgust when you want intimacy? Be honest, even if it hurts. submitted by /u/Expensive_Age_95

Originally posted by u/Expensive_Age_95 on r/AskMen