I feel like watching corn as a man is so normalized nowadays and for me its just really hard to understand. I Stopped watching that when I realized how it affected my view of intimacy, and tbh i also always was kinda disgusted by the Kind of content thats usually available online. The guys I dated in my age (im 32) had extremely worrying levels of corn addiction, they didnt always tell me but it was obvious, in the way they acted. It felt like role playing. And most also had developed varying level of dysfunction: Not getting hard, not being able to finish at all, only being able to finish when they get themselves off. Im even scared to do hookups now, cause one guy was getting extremely violent and degrading with me, which didnt show at all in his manners before (it was our 2nd date). Now I wish to Date someone who doesnt watch porn, not for the „I need to Contain my semen to become an Alpha in bed“-way, but just for disliking the Kind of content, how it Portrays intimacy and Women, and for the pleasure of cultivating own desires and fantasies. Are there any men who relate to my view, or is it unrealistic to hope for a Future Partner to Not watch porn at all? submitted by /u/wannistfruehling
Originally posted by u/wannistfruehling on r/AskMen