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Believe it or not, this is the type of guy my friend is dating and I am a little bit tired of listening to her rants. I’m curious how will you deal if you are to talk to that guy. He’s vocal about criticizing women who gain weight after giving birth getting angry almost how their bodies have changed. He sometimes plans “surprise” trips/dates as gifts (lol) but later expects her to split the cost even though she wasn’t consulted beforehand. He expects her to cook most of the time, and when she says she’s tired he’ll say things like “You’re always tired when it’s time to cook.” He values expensive gifts and tends to keep track of spending, sometimes asking how much she spent compared to him. If you were able to talk to a guy behaving this way as another man, what would you tell him about relationships, expectations, and respect submitted by /u/Apprehensive_cool

Originally posted by u/Apprehensive_cool on r/AskMen