Original Reddit post

to keep this from being extremely long, i like a guy (that does not know i like him) but yesterday, revealed to me that he is talking to a woman, looking to maybe have friends with benefits with her because they have an understanding he does not want a relationship. should i take this as he really does like her a lot and doesn’t want a relationship? OR how true is it that if a man really really likes a woman, he will look to be with her romantically? if that was confusing wording, i will put it like: does a man say this because he seriously doesn’t want a relationship (most of the time at least. again, i know there is nuance) or he just doesn’t like her enough to wanna be with her? i am so sorry if this question or wording offends anyone! please let me know. submitted by /u/Lost-Effective-7646

Originally posted by u/Lost-Effective-7646 on r/AskMen