Context: I’m having a baby next week and I’m kinda conflicted. My baby’s mother bought up the idea of her mom being in the room when she’s having our child. At first I got defensive about it because I assumed she had the conversation already without talking to me about it first. But then after I expressed how I felt and I let her know; due to it being our first child that I wanted it to be just me, her and the doctors in the room. I guess when she then told her mom about the plans, her mother got upset with her. She told her that it “hurt her feelings” I’m not sure what else or all was said, but now I feel as if I’m trying to be too controlling over the situation when I honestly just want to have that moment with my child’s mother (due to the fact that this is our first child). Should I just say forget it and allow her mom to be in the room with us or stand on my decision? P.S. I love her mom I don’t have any problem with her. I once again like I said just feel as if I want me and my child’s mother to have that moment alone “just us” before everybody else starts to come in things like that. And the question has nothing to do with what I just said. Every other question I tried to put didn’t work submitted by /u/sdotyou
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