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How do you know if a guy is into you? The guy I’m chatting with is very conventionally attractive, I’m not as much but still an okay girl. We’ve been friends for a long time (years) without knowing what each other look like. literally only found out what he looked like a month ago and I always thought he was cute (personality wise). When we talk on the phone, we talk all night long. We joke about how alike we are as we have SO many just really random things that make us alike. He told me he doesn’t like social media but has me added on all my socials and sends me reels etc on mine. He remembers things I tell him about myself and talks a lot about himself (he is more quiet around other people). That said he has quite a few female friends. So I’m really confused whether it’s friendship or actually something. He also lives quite far away. So that would be a hurdle. but he said he doesn’t plan to stay where he lives. He is open about that but is also a Christian so he doesn’t believe in casual sex. So I don’t think he’s like sleeping with any of these friends. He also has a lot of sisters too and grew up with a lot of female friends. I don’t know if I’m crazy and I know you guys can’t really get the whole situation from a post but any advice on how to know especially in a meet someone online situation would be amazing. thankyou submitted by /u/Eastern-Cap5035

Originally posted by u/Eastern-Cap5035 on r/AskMen