Original Reddit post

Hey guys I’m a 22F and have had a few flings in my teenage years/early twenties. Im still new to dating and figuring things out. One thing I’ve noticed however, is that women are usually a lot more obvious when they’re not interested. Men will court you if they believe they have even a slim chance of getting sex and will do everything in their power to see that through wether it be through dates, future faking or lavish gifts. As you can imagine this makes dating extremely hard for women as we can never gauge who is serious and who just wants fun. I try and be as honest and open about my intentions and have always made an effort to truly get to know the man I’m seeing. My most recent relationship ended after 4 months. There were a lot of false promises on his end and I unfortunately had to accept that he wasn’t that into me and was using me as a rebound to get over his toxic ex. submitted by /u/No-Fruit-8854

Originally posted by u/No-Fruit-8854 on r/AskMen