Original Reddit post

Hey! hope everyone’s doing okay, 26m here! i’ve struggled with something the recent years, i mean im starting to realise it more and more, but i don’t know how to develop intimacy with my girlfriends. i’m kind of a shy person, im always trying to be real careful with what i do and say and sometimes it feels like what we have is nothing more that a best friend kinda relationship (except for the sex). my last girlfriend broke up with me and recently and said that she saw me more like a friend, which technically is not a problem but it’s also not the first time that it happens to me and i don’t know if im missing something or we were just not made for each other (and im just thinking too much about it). yeah so i’ve always been kinda neutral and im trying to understand what i should change about myself so that it works. thanks!!! submitted by /u/Ordinary-Sorbet8180

Originally posted by u/Ordinary-Sorbet8180 on r/AskGirls