As a 30yr woman who grew up in a religious home and started dating late in life I struggle with affection (not sex 😝). As I navigate dating, it’s tricky because otherwise I am socially aware and come across as charismatic and I am not ugly so the men I attract expect me to already know how to be affectionate. In the case that I tell them about my inexperience they simply don’t care to deal with it or attribute it to disinterest. Nothing seems to stick past 3 months on average. Im not an extreme case, I have learned to initiate touch, send some kissy face emojis, im thinking of yous, etc. I have picked up some things from watching romance and dating shows, and will generate “flirty” responses to texts with ai if my responses are too dull lol. But the gap is still noticeable (based on feedback) and after all the work and effort (and therapy) Ive put into learning this skill, I feel like Ive hit a plateau and need new approaches or better resources. I was recently looking at the AI girlfriend experience. Do people who have used it think its a good resource to use for research purposes (outside of the adult content stuff lol)? They claim to make them for romance, meaningful, emotionally rich conversations. With flirty, affectionate, and deeply attentive personalities. They remember your stories, send you thoughtful messages. Otherwise what would be your advice be? Is this a skill that can only be built in a long term relationship, where you feel comfortable enough to show affection over time? (***please Im not here for the “just communicate or be genuine”, appreciate the advice though 😊) submitted by /u/Forsaken-Echidna-502
Originally posted by u/Forsaken-Echidna-502 on r/AskMen
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