I was thinking for some time now why i kind of fear being in a (new) relationship and one thing was basically, that i probably do not find anyone anymore, that can handle my snoring and that i like sleeping in the same bed. (Maybe irrational fear, but having a relationship with shared bedrooms kind of makes me sad) The second thing would be getting mad about something little, or stuff that was kept a secret that i only got to know later. (Like that one partner telling me he had a ONS with a friend we met a few times. Kind of crushed me, that she did not say this before.) I know especially the second thing i had no right to know and no one is obliged to tell me, but it kind of is an important information, although i’m sure opinions vary on that. What can or want you to tell me yourself that fits into that categories, that keeps you from pursuing a relationship. Or want to tell something about my points to correct my opinion / viewpoint / emotional position. submitted by /u/Temp_675578
Originally posted by u/Temp_675578 on r/AskMen