Hello, so there this girl I liked who had feelings for me before but doesn’t anymore. We are close now but things feel off now. We are in our mid twenties. I deep down still have feelings for her but at trying to move on. She got mad at me recently over a hypothetical question that made no sense to me because it felt like a question a couple would ask one another. She can be touchy at times with me and leaves me confused. I’m trying to move on but she got weirder lately where it feels like she is insecure which is normal for anyone but it feels like she uses me for validation or affection knowing how I feel/felt about her. She saw me talking to someone at an event then later told me “promise our bond will be higher than anyone else.” Then another time we talked about relationships and she kept asking me “who am I sleeping with?” She asked so many times and even called up one of my friends asking them then gave me silent treatment for not telling her but started being all happy again once I told her later that I’m not with anyone anymore. I feel pretty drained about it and I’m pretty beat on what to think or feel. I’m not wanting to be with someone who just makes me feel like this and wants someone who actually wants me for who I am, not for how I treat them. submitted by /u/Good_Cantaloupe_5406
Originally posted by u/Good_Cantaloupe_5406 on r/AskMen
