This is more of a post sourced from my own curiosity. I’m a man in my 30s and I’d probably describe myself as below average attractiveness and I’m diagnosed autistic. With that preamble out of the way I guess my question is: how does dating and relationships work? like from a fundamental standpoint how do you go from “zero” (a guy like me with no dating experience) to “hero” (a guy who can approach women get dates and find a relationship)? I work on myself almost constantly. I go to the gym, volunteer, go to clubs and I’ve even been going to therapy for 4 months now. I’m looking for constant ways to improve my life be it a new job, trip somewhere new literally anything. I’m constantly trying to improve who I am and how I present myself but it just doesn’t work and I’ve never found a girlfriend or been able to find a date. I guess my question is… how do you start? submitted by /u/420ball-sniffer69
Originally posted by u/420ball-sniffer69 on r/AskMen
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