I thought this was becoming a problem so I took mental note of how much she changes plans. It is ALL the time. Whatever decision she makes it will end up being different. I think it’s more than just indecision. Let me give an example to paint the picture. This weekend I took the kids to see relatives and give her a peaceful weekend alone. She wanted the kids back by Sunday so she would spend time with them before a very busy work week. I told her I’ll try to but people are coming in from out of state and not sure how the weekend will go. When we left and gave hugs to each other I told her I would be back by Sunday. She said “thank you”. Got a text message today saying “you should stay an extra day because you don’t have much time with your family and I can just see the kids some other time etc”. I freaking knew it was coming. I knew she was going to change plans just like she always does. On the surface it seems like she is just being nice and giving me more time but I don’t think that has anything to do with it. She just felt a need to change it. So wtf is up with this? It is constant, with everything, and starting to irritate me. Not sure if this is normal with everyone else or not. Is she just that indecisive or is it a control issue? Or is this some unconscious test that she is doing? Would like some advice from other guys who have been with women that act the same way. Please help. submitted by /u/easyday007
Originally posted by u/easyday007 on r/AskMen