Is it normal for dating outcomes not to increase despite tangible self improvement? When I was in college a few years ago, I hooked up with multiple girls using Tinder and even had a girlfriend briefly. I then graduated and spent a few years abroad, where I lost my glasses, began dressing with intent, and working out 4-5 days a week to the point where my face became more chiseled and muscles quite defined. I also got rid of a lot of my spectrum-adjacent socially inept traits and became much more affable. Living in NYC, it’s not abnormal for men to stare at me as I walk by, and on occasion I’ve been told I’m very “handsome” or “dapper”unprovoked by them. People of all genders find me very friendly and interesting given how much I’ve lived and experienced at 24. Yet, my results from women are nil. It’s been two years since I was intimate with a normal woman in a natural context. Is this normal, improving across the board in attractiveness yet seeing fewer results? submitted by /u/bc_951
Originally posted by u/bc_951 on r/AskMen
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