Original Reddit post

At times and especially recently it’s been hard(er) for me. I really miss having someone close to me, feel that connection. Getting intimate with someone, having someone value you and want to actually listen to you, not wait until the other person stops talking so they can get their turn. I’ve got some friends but as I’m nearing mid 30s I only get to see most of them every few weeks, some only twice a year or so. It’s been 15+ years since I’ve had a best bud. I visit a local club at least once a week and got some contacts there but that’s mostly for the club live and even for the group that we built within, I am just a member. This doesn’t really fill that role. I gotta admit that I still got contact to my ex from time to time but as it’s mostly fucking me up still, I am planning to cut that contact down to 0 again. I know I proably shouldn’t have in the first place… submitted by /u/Elendil_V

Originally posted by u/Elendil_V on r/AskMen