I’ve been seeing a lot of posts and comments from older men talking about patterns in dating, like: “women show more interest when you’re already taken,” “you get more attention when you stop chasing,” or just generally that things change depending on your situation or mindset. I’m 24 and single, and I’ve never really experienced being pursued, so I don’t have much of a reference point for any of this. For those of you who’ve experienced shifts like this at different points—whether it’s when you were in a relationship, more confident, not actively looking, or anything else—did you notice a real difference in how women interacted with you? What actually changed, and what did it feel like from your side? Just genuinely curious to hear different experiences and perspectives. submitted by /u/Different_Clue_2864
Originally posted by u/Different_Clue_2864 on r/AskMen