My husband (34M) never initiates and I (32f) either never noticed or fed myself lies about it. He says he doesn’t know how or it’s more like he’s not really confident in himself to do it. I’ve explained to him how I would like it, and what I wouldn’t like to decrease the possibility of rejection or an awkward reaction from me. We’ve been married for less than a year. I’d love to have sex 3 times a week. Heck, I’ll take 1 time! I’ve taken boudoir pictures and given him a magazine of the pics but I never see it anywhere. He says he masturbates sometimes, which is okay. I’m just wondering what can I do to help his confidence or make him want to desire me more?? Maybe it’s stress from his job or life?? But I want to help relieve some of that stress in the bedroom. What makes you feel more desire for your wife or want to have more sex?? submitted by /u/Lonesome_Wolf0430
Originally posted by u/Lonesome_Wolf0430 on r/AskMen
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