There is an arcade bar hosting a singles night later this week, I was invited to go with a couple of acquaintances and agreed at the time, but now I’m feeling kinda weird about it. My thinking was I’d use it to gain reps and practice in approaching women. My social skills and looks are both mediocre at best, so I expect to have low demand and keep my expectations low for it What were your experiences like at these events? Are they worth trying, or even taking seriously? I’ve been having second thoughts about trying. Going to a singles night as a man feels like admitting defeat, any woman that sees a man there would assume he’s a poor prospect by virtue of him being there. That makes this just feel like public humiliation to me, and I’d rather stay home than participate in something like that, even if I’m not expecting much. Being humiliated in front of my female peers doesn’t seem like a good trade off for practicing talking to women. Am I thinking of this wrong? submitted by /u/TasteMyKOC420
Originally posted by u/TasteMyKOC420 on r/AskMen
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