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I (27F) am new back into dating and have been on two dates with a guy (34M). The first date he paid for sushi, and the second date we went rock climbing and paid for me. I would like to offer to pay for our next date, but am worried that a) his ego may be damaged, b) he will expect me to go 50/50 on everything moving forward (both these scenarios have happened to me in the past, so I may be projecting here). I genuinely don’t mind paying, but don’t want my offer to come off the wrong way. Maybe I’m overthinking. Any advice on when/how to approach this is appreciated! submitted by /u/lambocj

Originally posted by u/lambocj on r/AskMen