Hi gentlemen, I wanted to just come on here asking for some general advice on something that tends to happen in my life. I’m 26, have a decent job as an engineer, and will be getting married in 3 months to a very attractive woman. I was at a concert today with her and her friends where it was a male performer in her native tongue. I just went to spend some time with her and just in general I feel better knowing I’m there if something was to happen. Anyway that’s not the point. The point is, she gets attention from musicians/artists during concerts because she’s very energetic and attractive. Today, there were multiple times where she’s with her friends close to the front row and the singer pointed to her while singing, smiled and just kept looking at her in general. This bothers me a LOT. I know being overprotective is a bad thing, but I can’t seem to shake off the feeling of “another man is singing and smiling to my fiancee, AND SHE’S LOVING IT”. It’s really stupid when you think about it but I’m not really finding the right things to say to myself to calm myself down you know. It makes me feel betrayed how excited she gets and how in the moment she is. Don’t get me wrong, she doesn’t just throw me to the side and throw herself onto whoevers performing, she waves at me, texts me during the concert, makes sure I’m good, which is all very lovely, so I guess this issue is just coming from a place of insecurity? I don’t know, but that’s most likely the case. I also trust her not to do anything stupid where she’d go on stage in a Chris Brown concert or something lmao, but I still have that feeling. Anyway, don’t want to ramble on for too long, just wanted to get some feedback from the boys for similar situations, what did you do, what did you feel, how did you prevent it, etc. I don’t want to sound like a little insecure bitch by constantly bringing it up too… Thanks in advance lads! submitted by /u/Illustrious-Chard790
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