Over the past few months, almost every girl I’ve talked to has been dealing with something significant past relationship issues, health problems, self-esteem struggles, etc. And somehow, I end up becoming their “support system.” I don’t mind being supportive that’s normal in any connection. But over time it starts feeling one-sided. I’m listening, understanding, helping… but I don’t really feel the same effort or emotional support in return. Is this just coincidence, or am I subconsciously choosing people who are already in a vulnerable phase? And how do you avoid becoming someone’s emotional support system too early? Not blaming anyone, just trying to understand what I might need to change. Would appreciate honest perspectives. submitted by /u/thegooddoc01
Originally posted by u/thegooddoc01 on r/AskMen