Original Reddit post

I’m a 35 years old man. About a year ago, I had to end a 4 year relationship with a woman I genuinely thought I was going to end up with. Since then, I’ve turned my life around in almost every way. But the problem is I still haven’t really gotten over it. I know there’s no shortage of cliches, self help advice, and pop-culture takes on this subject. Believe me when I say I’m already doing the work on my end. Right now, I just need to hear real experiences from fellow men who have actually been through this to help light the way a bit. I’d really appreciate some no bullshit wisdom. How did you manage it? What made it harder? What actually helped? And when did you feel like you had finally crossed over to the other side? Thank you very much in advance. submitted by /u/nevereverdanceagain

Originally posted by u/nevereverdanceagain on r/AskMen