There’s a pretty common idea that women can often tell when a guy has friends who aren’t good for him, and sometimes they end up being right about it. I’m curious if men have experienced the reverse. Have you ever looked at your girlfriend’s friend and thought, “This person does not actually respect her, value her, or treat her well”? Were you right? Did you say something, or did you stay out of it? I’m asking because my boyfriend has been telling me to steer clear of one of my friends. He thinks she doesn’t actually respect me or my time, and that the friendship is very one-sided. At first I thought maybe he was being too harsh, but I’m starting to notice some of the things he pointed out. So I’m wondering from a guy’s perspective: have you ever seen this situation clearly from the outside before your girlfriend did? And how did it turn out? submitted by /u/HopDev
Originally posted by u/HopDev on r/AskMen