I, 30m, am 5’10 and 180 pounds with an average build and I’d say average looks as well. I have never had a relationship longer than a year and the one that did wasn’t the most stable. With dating I get uninterested and annoyed easily bc I feel like I come across a lot of superficial, disingenuous, or fake people. I’m not on social media too much other than sending friends memes and posting once evevryday couple months and I want somebody who isn’t addicted to posting everyday and every second of their life but I feel like I’m in the minority with that. I just have dated or known people that are obsessed with celebrities, trends etc and I just don’t care to put celebs on pedestals. Every once in a while when I do find a mutual connection I’m ghosted or blocked and I hate it, I know whoever really wants me will communicate better but I get self conscious about myself. I try to present myself well with grooming well, dressing well, always carrying gum, deodorant, cologne, and mouthwash. But get self conscious and think maybe it’s just me. I identify as a bisexual man and sometimes I feel like I don’t fit in. I never got bullied for my sexuality in school, only had family judge me, so sometimes I don’t fit in with the queer community. I’m all for pride and such but I’m not much of a show offy person. Then with woman I have little luck as many woman in my area, rural Virginia, aren’t into bi men bc xyz or just wanna change date plans or wanna make me their personal bank. I don’t think open relationships for me bc I’d get way too jealous. Unsure what to do about trying to find a partner, even last night I had great time with a guy and this morning he blocked me. I guess that may be more on me, somehow I tend to attract a lot of fuck boys that will treat me well for a bit and then disappear. I try not to get too deep into hookup culture because I do want something more and I have people that will ghost then come back ghost then come back etc. Any advice would be helpful. submitted by /u/GloomyStay6162
Originally posted by u/GloomyStay6162 on r/AskMen
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