There’s a girl I know at school. Beautiful blonde, blue eyes, freckles, nice smile, she’s super pretty. Lately, I’ve been getting signals from her that she might like me, but I’m just not confident enough about it. Not because these are really tiny signals, but I’m a dude and I genuinely don’t interpret signals correctly. She keeps saying hi to me This one is a bit confusing for me. I’ve had girls before saying hi to me a lot because they think I’m funny, sometimes antagonising me, or they’re just being friendly. Today she said hi to me twice and yesterday while I was at rugby training she said hi to me as she passed to go to her teams training spot (where we live, rugby is a pretty popular sport). So that’s like 3 times in 24 hours. And it’s not like a brief, passing by kinda hi, it’s like she was watching me as she was approaching for like 15 seconds. May I mention, if this makes a difference, that she says my name too, makes eye contact, and smiles. I just can’t quite tell if it’s a mix between she thinks I’m funny and is friends with me, or she’s just genuinely into me. I catch her looking at me I’ve heard a lot about the “if she keeps looking at you, she’s 100% into you and you should ask her out immediately” stuff, but I’m just not quite sure and I need some reassurance. Today, at break, I was walking with my friends and we were passing her table, and out of the corner of my eye I could see she was looking at me and so I looked at her and she stated smiling and silently waved to me, eye contact and all. Also, at rugby yesterday, a little after she said hi to me, I swear I saw her looking at me, even if she was wearing shades, her head looked like it was pointing right at me. It almost was like she was wearing them, so I couldn’t tell she was looking at me. Texting and snapchat Now, don’t judge me for using snapchat to talk to her, but this is literally what all my friends use to talk, so i dont have much of a choice. I added her a while back, but she was dating some guy back then, so I don’t think she was looking for anyone. Anyways, she broke up with him a while back, and just one or two months ago, she added me. After a couple of days, I snapped her, and she very quickly snapped me back. The day after we sent each other 33 snaps (to all the older dudes who don’t use snapchat, that is a lot). A thing with highschoolers is that we’re extremely cautious about being judged, so we often send snaps of the wall or whatever (pretty meaningless and stupid, I know), but me and her pretty mutch immediately started sending eachother full face ones, and were not afraid of getter judged by eachother. She saves a lot of the stuff I send her and finds a lot of the things I show of me doing or whatever funny or interesting in some way. She’s also the one to initiate conversations and ask me what I’m doing. Something to not is that she is quite dry a lot of the time, but I think that’s just how she texts. However, it’s not like that all the time. conclusion Even if there are things that make me doubt it, I think she could likely be into me from the way i catch her staring, to the constant greetings and eye contact, to the texting and how vomfortable we are with eachother. Keep in mind that she’s a hallway crush, so there’s not really physical contact and stuff like that. We don’t share any classes, but we still see each other around. I just need some thoughts on this and advice on what my next steps her should be. Thanks. submitted by /u/Nostagiaman
Originally posted by u/Nostagiaman on r/AskMen
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