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A girl that I’ve been seeing is constantly giving me feedback from her side about the relationship. I feel like she affirms these feelings through her female therapist & sending me videos of other women commenting on relationships from Instagram. What I have noticed is that I, as a male, am constantly compromising to the women’s perspective when no men other than me are sharing to her my perspective. The videos also are women roleplaying the male perspective and the comments are all women. I feel like it’s a form of gaslighting because they don’t fully understand the male perspective and aren’t necessarily seeking it out. How do you guys overcome this in your relationships? submitted by /u/Didj1998

Originally posted by u/Didj1998 on r/AskMen