I notice alot of the advice today is rooted in the idea that you have to be a good person to get a woman. Honestly its all bs. I got nothing against being a good person because I strive to be a good person daily, but that is not going to be the reason why you get a woman. Here is the algorithm of what happens when you are a good person. Women will talk to you, but you are just a nice guy Then you will be asking a question of “im such a nice guy, why dont women like me” then preceeded to get gas light by reddit about how you arent really a nice guy Or you get the other effect. This is where I am currently Women just talk to you like anyone else lol. You dont make friends or even get close to dating. Instead you are the associate that they say hi to. Almost like a regular at a bar. Then you wonder should I go further? Should I just be a man about this and ask her out? Then you do and get rejected. Now people on reddit claim that you are desperate, needy, and dont see women as people. So you go back to step one in the algorithm I hope you guys see the issue here submitted by /u/Evening-Register2297
Originally posted by u/Evening-Register2297 on r/AskMen