I’ve encountered men who will say “just ask me and I got you,” or “all you have to do is ask” especially when it comes to money or buying things. I’m trying to understand how men actually feel about this. If this is something you can’t relate to, respectfully, your input won’t be helpful so please refrain from comments not on topic. I am genuinely curious and seeking perspective from men who operate in the way I’ve described 🤍 To continue… In situations like: -paying for meals -sending money for something small (like lunch, nails, etc.) -surprising her with things she’s mentioned Do you prefer: A woman directly asking you? Or her hinting/expressing interest and letting you take the lead? How would you prefer to be asked/guided? Also, does asking change how you perceive her at all? Would love to hear: -your preference -your age (if comfortable) -whether you see yourself as more traditional/provider-minded or more 50/50 Thank you in advance!! submitted by /u/LooneyForTunes
Originally posted by u/LooneyForTunes on r/AskMen