Or rather, being just a random person or just not important to most of your contacts? I’m nearing my mid 30s now and it feels like all my remaining contacts are a slog. I tried to set up a meeting with a friend, possibly grab some food. We do not see each other often, maybe a few times a year. It takes days for him to answer and we still do not even have a date. Asked him of possible dates but I didn’t get a proper answer. And most people nowadays are also taking days or are just too stupid to answer?! Or don’t really care? I ask some guys in the chatgroup of my club who wants to go to the square for a meet up and then either get no answer or just crap that they don’t have time. And it doesn’t matter when I ask, the day before or 2 weeks in advance does not make a difference. Mind you, those people do not have children or are bound by other duties. It feels like all my contacts are just… there. Like they do not even care about me if you know what I mean. submitted by /u/Elendil_V
Originally posted by u/Elendil_V on r/AskMen
