I ask this question in the view of relationships and dating. Im hoping to get answers from mostly attractive men, im 18 right now and i am insecure of everything about me,sometimes i want to think of it as a phase that i will outgrow but then i remember that chads never outgrew,they were pretty and handsome and muscular to a great extent above average in their teenage years. I have met people who did grow out of their “ugly” phase but they arent romantically successful atleast not to the extent of the “already established” attractive man. Im kinda asking this question hoping to get some comfort but i do require honesty,is beauty a guaranteed “stress-free” ride ticket and if so can i book the ticket now ,or have i missed the ride?. And i have researched a bit where men say stuff like “yea ,ive been rejected once or twice” or “yea sometimes i feel like my nose is big”.but my definition of worthlessness is something like. People calling u ugly almost every week,unprompted. 2.Parents telling u that ur a “lost cause” and that u should just limit yourself to making money. 3.Loss of interest in any activity or performance since ur results will never be appreciated. Sorry about the venting,but i just wanted to set the bar for “worthlessness” And for all the unattractive men out there…was being worthless just a phase ,or did u have to cope,and by cope i mean “choosing to ignore the truth” just cus not coping hurts way more?. submitted by /u/ShoulderTurbulent515
Originally posted by u/ShoulderTurbulent515 on r/AskMen
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