She actively decided to put up with my deadbeats dad behaviour and took up the responsibilities for two. 2.She likes doing excessive household chores and activities as a hobby , like she would do over and above and things which are not required bcz she genuinely likes. Resulting to this she actively used to vent out her fatigue on me . I wasnt a great son growing up, but somewhere she did overkill and she still does. She often unintentionally tries to bar me from going out , with the excuse that I need to either study or help her. I am willing to help her in a fair manner and I do but there should be a limit , she expects me to prioritise only household chores all the time post studies. Maintaining a healthy social life is also important right? But bcz of her behaviour and demeanor I was always hesitant to go out even when I am an adult. She would get emotional whenever I wanted to have a genuine conversation and would never understand that I could have different priorities in my life too apart from wanting to do household activities . My basic social life has been ruined and I did have a job but I had to quit bcz of my health issue. And I had a very good work ethic and was praised for it. I am saying this bcz I want to assert that I am functioning adult. I dont want to lie I hate her bcz she actively decided not to set boundaries for equal contribution and expected me to share same priorities as her. submitted by /u/Monk_in_process
Originally posted by u/Monk_in_process on r/AskMen
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