So i’m 19M, only got into sexual activities in the past year and tried them with 2 people . Every time i’ve tried anything sexual, i’ve had weird but consistent patterns getting/maintaining an erection depending on the specific situation. Leading up to anything (Kissing, touching) just being close in general, i’m a rock. Now if we tried head or a handjob, i stay up for at most 5 minutes then it goes away. If we tried sex, it goes soft almost instantly. I’ve only had “sex” (if you could even call it that) for at most 10 seconds 2 times. I’m confused because i can fully function by myself , but when I’m with a girl these patterns show. I’m really discouraged because i want to know what good sex or just normal sex in general feels like. I really don’t want to hear the common “make her feel good and that’s enough” replies. That’s basically been my only way to please them so i’ve been doing that, the women i’ve been with have verbally said how much they wanted me inside of them, and it’s killing me that i cant preform basically what i’ve been put on earth to do. Does someone have anything? submitted by /u/FreedomDirect4507
Originally posted by u/FreedomDirect4507 on r/AskMen