i used to have a fairly consistent sex life in the beginning 3-4 months of my relationship, after that it kinda just faded from 3+ times a day, to once a day, to once a week and so on. boyfriend said it’s primarily because i don’t “put in work” as in i’ve never been one to be on top nor do i exactly know what to do to please him while on top. up and down? back and forth? lift myself up? or no? etc. also, hand placement while on top ? this sounds so stupid to be asking but i am embarrassed to ask him upfront and don’t want him to look at me like im stupidly inexperienced or something. overall not something i want to ask upfront. also, is it enjoyable for me to be rubbing my clit while were having sex or is that rather offensive as if you aren’t doing a good job? basically, any information as to pleasing my boyfriend further, would be nice. submitted by /u/peytonl4ttin
Originally posted by u/peytonl4ttin on r/AskMen
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