I have two things I want to plan for myself. Get a motorcycle license and a license to to carry. I gave up riding and my previous carry license years ago because… honestly, I gave up on taking care of myself and enjoying my hobbies. Now that I’m a single father (2+ years) and life has found more consistency for us (me and the kids), I want to pick up enjoyments that won’t rely on having friends. I have been reluctant because riding poses a lot of risk, as do all things, but if you’ve ridden before, you know how undiligent or dangerous other drivers are. The last thing I want is for my children to come home and I’m unable to give notice or show up. As for carrying, I enjoyed the range. Do I necessarily want to have it around my kids, I’m not sure. “Protection” can sometimes be a fallacy. I could be well-traned, prepared, or increase myself for self-defense, but bust my head slipping out of the shower (happened to my late uncle after he served 20+ years in prison). These are my interest and hobbies, so there’s no reason I should sit around and argue with myself not to do these things or fear extreme consequences. I just want to start living more and doing things for myself. Overall, I want to have balance between being a full-time father and a happy, healthy humanbeing. Oh! One more thing. I never done it, which is why I feel compelled to, but I want to take my son to get a manicure and pedicure. Lol. I think it’ll be fun for us to get pampered and see what the fuss is about. submitted by /u/optimaltimemism
Originally posted by u/optimaltimemism on r/AskMen