I’d love to hear from people single or in relationships. I’m in a long term marriage (almost 20 years) my husband is always wanting to the pub (without me) and bars/clubs often too. (Context, he’s cheated in the past so I’m aware this could be why he’s wanted to go again) But the conversation he’s always having with me is that “most men” are at pubs etc weekly and that it’s completely normal for men to be in bars and clubs and I’m not invited to go along. I’d love to hear what you do in your home? And if you’re not a pub club goer, what are your hobbies/weekend activities? I just want to know what else is out there not because I’m looking but I’m constantly getting told his is the norm. we have two sons, one in high school and one in primary, I work full time two, I do the lions share of kids logistics and care. submitted by /u/lookingatthetrees
Originally posted by u/lookingatthetrees on r/AskMen