just to preface i’m in a reIationship with a girl for a few years now and i’m not looking for another. i’m content and don’t have wondering eyes so this isn’t me saying i’m actively trying to get girls when i already have one. it’s just interesting how i can count the number of girls who’ve ever showed interest in me on one hand. i mean yeah i basically just entered my twenties but still? at first i felt a bit insecure as a teenager about this because i kept thinking maybe i‘m not attractive enough or i’m weird 😅 but that didn’t make sense because if that was the case then -no one- would bother hitting on me, guys or girls. but then with other guys? it’s like night and day. and the craziest thing is i’ve always hung out with girls more than guys so it’s not even a proximity thing. sometimes i’m surprised because it can come from nowhere and despite how i front sometimes i am a shy/reserved person irl. so when a guy hits on me i get flustered and it makes it look like i am receptive to the flirting and it gets so awkward LOL. i just don’t know if it’s something i’m doing that i’m unaware of. because i have a male best friend and he doesn’t get hit on by other guys when we go out. so i don’t know why this is happening with me. submitted by /u/itz_vampy
Originally posted by u/itz_vampy on r/AskMen
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