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I’ve been dating a Swiss-German man for about 9 months and would love some perspective. He’s very consistent,daily communication, plans trips in advance, thoughtful gifts, and real effort despite a busy schedule. He’s also generationally Swiss, which might explain his stability and long-term mindset. We have a 20-year age gap (he’s in his 50s, I’m a female in my 30s), which could also play a role in how intentional he is. He’s told his family about me, and overall it feels calm, steady, and genuine,not chaotic or casual. Do these sound like strong signs he’s serious about me long-term? Curious to hear your thoughts 💭 submitted by /u/Warm_Might5582

Originally posted by u/Warm_Might5582 on r/Switzerland