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Me (M30) and my girlfriend (F29) have been together for 8 months. It’s been a very difficult but also intense relationship. Lots of fighting but all up and down. Today she wanted to breakup with me because she reached her limits about seeing me going out with my friends. I used to hang out with them way more often, but because she hates them, it isn’t possible to be with them very often because she wouldn’t join us. I get told that I am 30 and I should become more responsible avoiding going out drinking with friends till late sometimes(once a month). And I should agree to come back home at midnight and sober . She Hates my friends because apparently they’re too shallow to talk about politics and other things that she likes, while they just focus on funny and very easy going conversations. They’re all single and they wanna enjoy life going out. My girlfriend sees this as a problem because in her opinion I should concentrate on our relationship and see my friends as little as possible,and come back home at midnight maximum and sober. Also don’t take example from them because They’re all 30 and still single, so not a good example (in her opinion). I am not an alcoholic, I don’t even drink at home, but when I go out why would I need to pay so much attention to how much I drink and what time I’m coming back? I’m not a kid. My best friend is gay, he’s been liken a brother to me for 9 years, and one time he slept in my same bed and she freaked out when she found out. Nothing happened obviously but she keeps making me feel bad about it. It’s all ending with her telling me that she can’t cope with having me going out with my friends, she hates them so much that she says they should die and disappear. I love her, I really do, but I suffer about this situation. And I constantly feel like I need to miss out with friends because I have to dedicate 99% of my time to her. It’s amazing but it’s not healthy. She wants to leave me. submitted by /u/BuyGlobal3656

Originally posted by u/BuyGlobal3656 on r/AskMen