As I [30f] embark on dating seriously again, I’ve noticed that I don’t like waiting around for a man to text me. I prefer to just reach out to them when I feel like it. I’m very communicative and I don’t like playing stupid mind games. But I’ve heard from other women that in order to remain “the prize” I should let the man take the lead in courting me. Honestly that sounds like stupid mind games to me, but I’ve never been the best at the “dating game” in general. All of my last relationships have just sorta happened, so this is the first time I’ve put conscious effort into finding a relationship. I’d like to hear directly from men about how much this actually matters. I care less about being “the prize” than building something real with a good person. But I also can’t tell if I’m being naive. Thoughts? submitted by /u/Wonderful_Bug_1422
Originally posted by u/Wonderful_Bug_1422 on r/AskMen
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