I am a man mid thirties, wife also mid thirties have two kids and what seems to be a perfect marriage. There is one concern though our sex life is dying. I have been sexually frustrated for a while now about 3 years. I think I have a high sex drive and desire for my wife. But I feel like it’s more than that. She doesn’t satisfy me anymore. I want her and I love her but she has zero sexual desire. When she does want sex it’s always on her terms. We shower together every night almost, and I always get rejected. We could be alone in the house no kids on a Saturday afternoon and I always get hit with the “later”. When later does happen it’s at 3am after she has been up watching her shows and I’m woken up out of a dead sleep. Which is not enjoyable for me because I don’t even remember it. Or it’s the ok we can tonight line then when it’s bed time she piles all the kids and dogs on the bed. She doesn’t make it fun either, aside from the occasional engagement on her part it’s her watching a movie and me having my way. Here’s the rub, I’m tired of it. This is the same post I made last year and the year before that it was a whole other issue. I am just ready to get out there and run through pussy. I’m getting back in shape and I can feel my energy rising. Here’s the advice part, do I continue for the kids, considering I love my life outside some minor issues like sex? Do I get out there again, having fun and losing my family in the process? Do I have the same argument with the wife about it? I’m so conflicted submitted by /u/Ok-Key391
Originally posted by u/Ok-Key391 on r/AskMen
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