I am a 45yF in a long term relationship with a similar age male who have sadly fallen into the ‘roommate’ pattern in the bedroom, where a cup of tea in the morning has superseded our former more intimate start to the day (or any time of the day TBH). Without going into the reasons why (as they are the usual) we’ve both acknowledged the issue and are making changes to turn it around. I casually suggested a challenge to try one new sex game,position, activity each week for a year - it was a fun suggestion and my partner is willing, so it’s all in good will. My questions are: What have others done to reignite the bedroom after a period of lack of interest and activity? And what are some good sources for me to get some ideas that aren’t too outrageous and mean more into good sex than kink? What other things do I need to think about as the female to increase his desire? And I get that this could become less fun if there’s pressure over the year, so will see how it goes. submitted by /u/Icy_Beautiful1759
Originally posted by u/Icy_Beautiful1759 on r/AskMen
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