M21 here, handling home finances and ending house debt. Grew up with a mentally ill and abusive father. Grew up in shame and low self confidence. Got a little sibling to look after and a mum that needs my help and support. Rn I’m doing good, trajectory seems to be good and Im getting more confident, charismatic everyday dealing with people twice my age (running a little business) and now I feel at authority so people actually listen and respect. Its just, everyday feels lonely. I need to visualise how life will change, I got a lot of pent up rage inside. What all will get better and what all stays? Any regrets? Serious answers only, and if you don’t relate please keep your thoughts to yourself man - some of you here are really messed up lmao submitted by /u/icykingsley
Originally posted by u/icykingsley on r/AskMen
