It’s been about 9 months sense finding about some levels of my wife’s infidelity ( not intercourse if that makes a difference). And yes I did years before…not the point. We recently just got scammed out of almost $40k on a Wells bank fraud scheme. Here’s the thing, my wife is in IT for a financial institution , and she has a lot of common sense and handles our finances. As I’m processing the scam, it is fairly sophisticated, but not anything that shouldn’t have been caught. I’ve taken the high road, even called back one of the numbers that originated the scam. Burner of course. Wells confirms a real scam. She’s really beating herself up, rightfully so. But can’t help to think was it a true lapse in judgement? Or was it she was distracted by other things (still constantly on her phone and SM) and just got for? Or was it got sucked into some SM convo, found energy in the infidelity/ attention? The whole thing is so strange submitted by /u/Frequent-Primary2452
Originally posted by u/Frequent-Primary2452 on r/AskMen